Dog safety

They are walked before I leave for work at 5:30 in the morning. They are walked again for an extended period of time or taken to the dog park after I return home from work. I take good care of my dogs and would never do anything that would remotely bring harm to them. It offends me that my life is attempting to be controlled through them. My ex-wife is insistent that I inform her when "strangers", i.e. dates, are coming over to the house so that she might approve of them meeting the dogs. If this sounds silly to you, that's because it is. Look, the dogs see "strangers" every day at the dog park. They interact with them all the time. I'm curious as to whether she might react the same way if the visitors to the house were male. In any case, the dogs are gone and communication has ceased. It's a terrible situation but I might have to lose the dogs in order to rid myself of her. Let's face it- I'm not running a crack house. I don't have different people over every night. I'm a very responsible pet owner and I take good care of my dogs period.